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If
you talk to someone who tithes they will say something like, "God has done
so much for me," or, "It is all about gratitude," or It all belongs to
God anyway." They are all variations on a theme that puts God at the
center of their lives.
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Weekly Reflection: Pastor Dana Reardon
January 30, 2006
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Do we trust God with our souls, but not our wallets?
The thing I have
discovered in my years of writing and thinking about stewardship
is that the reasons that people give are pretty simple, but the
reasons that people withhold their giving are much more
complicated.
If you talk to someone who tithes they will say something like,
"God has done so much for me," or, "It is all about gratitude,"
or It all belongs to God anyway." They are all variations on a
theme that puts God at the center of their lives.
But if you talk to people who are not giving what they believe
they ought to, the answers become more varied and scattered. Some
will tell you it is because of the way finances are handled in
their congregation. Some will tell you it is because their own
expenses prohibit it. I remember one family who was doing major
renovations to their home and told me that they were their own
favorite charity at that time. Some will talk about some income
goal they were working toward, and if they reached that benchmark
then they would be able to give more.
Maybe those responses are just rationalizations. Maybe there are
lesser reasons But tying all of these reasons together is the
reality that God is not at the center of their lives and their
decision making.
Jesus said, "Where your treasure is, there will your heart be
also." So does the giving precede the trust? I think maybe.
Don't you know someone in your life who trusts God with all his or
her heart? Haven't you longed to be that person and to have that
kind of faith?
Then Jesus is telling you that God will become the center and the
focus of your life when you treasure lies there.
Perhaps that is precisely why those who do give generously have
only one answer or variations on the theme of why they give.
Putting their treasure with God has turned their hearts there.
Luther said that the toughest conversion is the pocketbook. But
Jesus implies that without that conversion our hearts lie
elsewhere and it becomes impossible to love the Lord with all our
hearts and minds and strength.
Lord,
Open my heart enough so that I might give and then the rest of my
heart will follow.
Amen
Copyright (c)
2006, The Rev. Dana Reardon. All rights reserved. Used by permission. Email her at
mspastor@aol.com.
The Rev. Dana Reardon is pastor at St.
Paul Evangelical Lutheran Church, Warwick, RI. A lifelong Lutheran, she
came to ordained ministry after 21 years in nursing, mostly in pediatric
intensive care. She graduated from Lutheran Theological Seminary at
Philadelphia in 1998 and served 4 ½ years in Upstate New York before
becoming a New Englander. She is still trying to understand the
accent. While in the Upstate New York Synod she chaired the Stewardship
Team. That began her fascination with what makes stewards -- and more,
what makes for generosity.
She
has three amazing daughters: Pastor Reardon says much of what she knows of
life she learned from them.
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