Good
Stewardship vs. Petty Frugality
I
I have been
thinking a lot lately about what we are stewards of. I wrote about it
and talked about being what Paul calls "stewards of the mysteries of
God."
But what I see too much is our being stewards of a building or
stewards of a bank account.
It occurs to me just now that my job as a pastor is not only to be a
steward of what you have given to the church, but to all that we all
collectively have been given by God.
What makes me think that is in our vision campaign I got a check from
a widow who I know is not living on much and I was worried that she
could not afford it so I called her up and asked her if she really
wanted to give that much. She said she had been praying about it and
consulted her children and, yes she did want to give that much.
She seems to be operating out of a feeling of abundance even thought
to me her circumstances seem meager.
But on the other hand I see some frugalities in the church that bother
me. Frugalities we don't practice in the rest of our lives.
Did you ever go to a church picnic where they had generic soda?
Somebody wants you to know that they are being good stewards. But
they probably don't drink it any other time.
And people feel like good stewards when the church has old cast off
furniture that is falling apart in the church parlors and gathering
rooms. It is cast off because no one wanted anything that looked that
bad in their own houses.
I am not suggesting that we run out and refurnish our teen room or
have our church picnics catered. What I am suggesting is that we do
not equate good stewardship with being cheap with God.
We ought instead to be practicing the frugalities at home and then
offering our best to God.
When I have company I put out my best. I buy flowers for the table
and serve a good wine. I make sure everything looks nice.
One thing I have been thrilled with at St. Paul's is that the altar
ladies do a wonderful job on the table and I am always pleased to
stand behind that table and give thanks.
That is what we should be doing in our churches and in all parts of
our churches. So that God is honored and it is evident to visitors
and they also feel honored to be with us.
We certainly do it within our means and don't squander what God has
given us. But God has given us plenty to do all the things that we
are called to do.
Lord,
You have always given your best to us and what is most precious to
you, even to given us your Son. May we be as generous with you and
with all to whom you have sent us.
Amen
Copyright (c)
2004, The Rev. Dana Reardon. All rights reserved. Used by permission. Email her at
mspastor@aol.com.
The Rev. Dana Reardon is pastor at St.
Paul Evangelical Lutheran Church, Warwick, RI. A lifelong Lutheran, she
came to ordained ministry after 21 years in nursing, mostly in pediatric
intensive care. She graduated from Lutheran Theological Seminary at
Philadelphia in 1998 and served 4 ½ years in Upstate New York before
becoming a New Englander. She is still trying to understand the
accent. While in the Upstate New York Synod she chaired the Stewardship
Team. That began her fascination with what makes stewards -- and more,
what makes for generosity.
She
has three amazing daughters: Pastor Reardon says much of what she knows of
life she learned from them.