We Really Give What Is Not Ours
Since
people are starting to ask me for stewardship sermon advice, I will
send a children's sermon. The beginning of it is something I
borrowed, and because I got it secondhand I can't credit the source,
but I have added a twist so I will share it as partly mine.
Before church one Sunday I gave a child a $20 bill, with instructions
that I would be asking for it during the children's sermon.
Then when the kids came down front, I started telling them that I had
company coming after church and I was broke. I said that it is
usually nice to offer people something to eat, but I had nothing to
offer them. I said that even if I just had enough to order a pizza
that would be okay.
Then child to whom I gave the $20 to says, "Here you can order a pizza
with this." And I asked the other kids, "Why do you think it was so
easy for him to give me the money?"
Some said, because
he was nice, or generous, or because I was the pastor. Then I asked
him why it was so easy to give me the money and he said, "Because it
wasn't mine. You gave it to me."
That is the
children's sermon I have heard and copied, but I didn't stop with the
questions. I had one more. I said to the young boy, "What if I gave
you that money before church and I forgot to ask for it? Maybe I did
another children's sermon or something. What would you do? Maybe you
might start thinking about a trip to the mall or the movies. Thinking
about what you might spend it on. He said yes. We agreed that the
longer that it was in his pocket the more he would start to think of
it as his.
Our goal as steward leaders is to help people understand that it
really is easy to give back what is not ours in the first place. We
give back what we have been given. We are failing at our job if we
let money sit in all our pockets so long that we start thinking it is
ours and we have other plans for it. That is when it gets hard to ask
people to give.
And frankly we hate talking about money because we really do believe
that we are asking people for their money instead of asking them to be
good managers of what God has given them and give back a portion to
God's work in this world.
Lord,
We pray that we would truly understand and be thankful because
everything that we have and are comes from you. And we pray that we
would be bold in sharing that with others and offering the privilege
of sharing what you have giving them with others.
Amen.
Copyright (c)
2004, The Rev. Dana Reardon. All rights reserved. Used by permission. Email her at
mspastor@aol.com.
The Rev. Dana Reardon is pastor at St.
Paul Evangelical Lutheran Church, Warwick, RI. A lifelong Lutheran, she
came to ordained ministry after 21 years in nursing, mostly in pediatric
intensive care. She graduated from Lutheran Theological Seminary at
Philadelphia in 1998 and served 4 ½ years in Upstate New York before
becoming a New Englander. She is still trying to understand the
accent. While in the Upstate New York Synod she chaired the Stewardship
Team. That began her fascination with what makes stewards -- and more,
what makes for generosity.
She
has three amazing daughters: Pastor Reardon says much of what she knows of
life she learned from them.